For so many years it seemed that life was smooth, and over all these years we suddenly realized, that we have grown up, we are losing our innocence, we are losing our fun to do things. We'll be missing schools, and moving to colleges, and again to post graduations, getting a job, earning handsome salary and finally getting settled. What's next? The marriage!!
Why is it that marriage is a huge word in itself !!?? Why are people so scared of getting married?? What bothers them to respect this institution?? What is it that scares them from the inside that urges them to call it off someday??
All these questions may arise in the head of anyone who is a suitable bachelor or spinster; and their family is either trying to find a soul mate for them, or else they are already in relationship with someone. And yet they find it difficult to accept and take this relationship to the next level!!
The one word answer to these questions is Commitment!! People these days lack commitment. They lack the tag of being unconditionally attached to someone. Every person who comes into your life is in need of something. This person will come for a while, see things around, change it as suitable to him/her, and then moves on, saying, “It seems you have changed a lot!!” At first they say, “Be yourself.” and later they judge you for that. WOW!! People these days are lacking the true essence of life, called LOVE!! They are not finding what they need in a person. At first it seems as if we are the best thing that ever happened to them, and then they start find faults, as to what the person lacks.
In the old days, couples hardly met before marriage. And yet their marriage lasted for all their life. Just because they had a notion that marriage is an institution and one must surrender completely with full commitment and be with each other in their entire life ...But now feelings have been replaced by Conditions Apply*!!
Why is it that marriage is a huge word in itself !!?? Why are people so scared of getting married?? What bothers them to respect this institution?? What is it that scares them from the inside that urges them to call it off someday??
All these questions may arise in the head of anyone who is a suitable bachelor or spinster; and their family is either trying to find a soul mate for them, or else they are already in relationship with someone. And yet they find it difficult to accept and take this relationship to the next level!!
The one word answer to these questions is Commitment!! People these days lack commitment. They lack the tag of being unconditionally attached to someone. Every person who comes into your life is in need of something. This person will come for a while, see things around, change it as suitable to him/her, and then moves on, saying, “It seems you have changed a lot!!” At first they say, “Be yourself.” and later they judge you for that. WOW!! People these days are lacking the true essence of life, called LOVE!! They are not finding what they need in a person. At first it seems as if we are the best thing that ever happened to them, and then they start find faults, as to what the person lacks.
In the old days, couples hardly met before marriage. And yet their marriage lasted for all their life. Just because they had a notion that marriage is an institution and one must surrender completely with full commitment and be with each other in their entire life ...But now feelings have been replaced by Conditions Apply*!!
We all need a reality check as to how we treat our partners. We need a counsel that bridges the gaps created by the differences between the two. Shouldn't we owe them for all the years when they accepted us, or may be for the years to come? How many times did we say a thank-you and brought a smile on each other's face??
Life is too busy. Hence we need to find times for them who are worth it, and acknowledge it. We need to make them realize that their presence can make a huge difference in ours, before we realize it's very late. Remember, it's never too late!! Life is a temporary phase. We must make our life as happening as early as we can so that it’s not just good for us but for the people around us too. What's better than making life less difficult for each other??
Stop wasting time in thinking too much. Got an idea? Then go make it happen!! Life is too short for craving for things that was never meant to be ours...instead enjoying and living in the moment ...you never know it might never come back !!...Stay blessed all!! O:) :)
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