Sunday, June 16, 2013

Lessons and learnings!!!

This blog post is dedicated to a few topics that turn out to be lessons, the ones from which we may either choose to learn and move forward towards improving ourselves, or just ignore them and keep living the screwed up life cursing it every single moment. I would like to be as precise and short as possible. Some of these topics relate directly or indirectly to me, the others I've come across through the experiences of my friends. But expecting that you are a good reader, I would like to have your comments on this post, your own lessons if you may choose to share, your views on the experiences I am sharing herewith. So lets start:

2. Education: What do you think is the best education? How do we understand what is best for us? Since the beginning of the civilization, the children have been asked to follow on the footsteps of their parents, as they have showcased the best examples of how to take care of themselves and their family. They are right. But with times changing, the trend is tremendously shifting towards the interest of the child. It can be sports, music, arts, or any subject at school. What is the best way to encourage such types of talent? Is there a system for this?

3. Career: What is the best career? What are the parameters that define the best career for an individual? How do we know whether our current job is satisfactory, whether it matches our intellectual level, or if we just pursue it because we do not have other choices?

4. Relationship: What is the meaning of this word? Well, there was one person in this world who answered this question long time ago. Mr. Einstein. Then the factor that his own relationship was in jeopardy in his later part of life, was not something out of the books. Then who gives us the best definition of this word? How and when does a person understand or acquire the emotional behavior that is important for maintaining a relationship. I am talking relationship of any type. When does a child understand his responsibilities towards his parents? When does he realize that there are others who might feel so deeply for him, yet he may find difficult to grasp the concept? When does he realize how old he is, and how long he has left to embed a mark on his timeline?

5. Society: What is a society? Is it a set of rules employed on the set of people who live together so that all can sustain peacefully together? If this is so, why is it so difficult to implement in all parts of the world? Why are we sometimes suppressed in the name of the society? Why are we confined only to a section and are bound with the rules? Why is there so less space for reformation?

So many of you must be wondering that the number "1" is missing from the list. But it will really be very embarrassing for me to realize that I did. So here it is:

1. You: Who are you? Why are you asking these questions? What significance is it going to have on yourself and others? How much do you respect yourself, your personality, and everything that you do? Why do you think that you are lesser than anyone else? Why don't you see that you are different, unique in your own sense, that you have something that so many of them don't?

So many questions, and a really big burden for answering them alone. I need your help in understanding these questions!!! Will you help me out??

R.S.V.P. (If you have any more questions that you want to share with the readers, feel free.. )

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